Its the time of the year again.. I'm pressured to do revision with the kids.. mainly for No1 & No2
No 1 is only in Standard One & No2 is in her last year of Kindergarten.
Is it good or bad for me to have these feelings of wanting her kids to score and get No 1 in class..?
because I'll get very upset if they don't.
..and i will feel that i failed to educate my kids
..and i will feel my kids are not smart
..and i will other kids are better
..and i will feel like a loser..
so that's why i'm pressured when it comes to exams! cause it's testing me too!!
Because in the end, it is between you and Allah swt. It was never between you and them anyway.
3 comments:
it's natural for moms to feel the pressure... i know someone who resigned due to stress at work when her daughter was sitting for PMR... and my colleague has taken 1 week leave to be at home and provide moral support for her daughter who's sitting for PMR this week!
but after all is said and done, you'll know you've done your best and the kids will get what they deserve... i.e. good grades ;-)
just popped in to say hello..
My son is in Std 1 too..but he's very cool about it. Usually it's us parents who worry so much. Because our education system is so exam oriented..
thanks for the comments.
yesterday i took the day off (MC);D
dapatlah buat revision with No1 & No2 sikit.
so stress level has gone down a little..
kalau nak tunggu balik kerja malam2, time tu lah everybody will be jumping up and down for attention.
ni baru standard One & kindergarten. belum lagi UPSR or PMR or SPM.. So help me God!!
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